this was absolutely the worst bar experience i have ever had in my life. my friend and i joined a group of about 30 people having drinks to celebrate a friend's birthday at the abbey. despite living in the neighbourhood, i had never been to this place before. i was coming from work so we only arrived at 1 am, enough time for a beer or two before last call. there was one bartender who seemed to have not even the slightest idea about how to effectively tend the bar. i later found out that he is either the owner or one of the owners of the place. ok, so- i understand that the pub was empty before the group showed up (even though it was a saturday night) but anyone who has ever worked in the service industry knows that sometimes you have to hustle... we ordered two pints, and proceeded to wait for about 10 minutes while the bartender flirted with girls across the bar and took a couple of shots with other patrons. i understood that maybe he forgot about our drinks- it happens- so i politely reminded him... he acknowledged that he heard me, but immediately proceeded to take orders from other customers. after more than 20 minutes of standing right in front of the bar trying to get a drink, i was baffled and starting to get frustrated... the next time i got his attention, i began to assert myself more, and by that i mean, instead of saying "can we please get our beers?" i said "hey we've been waiting for a really long time, do you think you could pour those beers now?" honestly, this is what the guy does--- he looks me straight in the eye for a few lingering seconds, and then just turns around and walks the other way! what???? so after about 45 minutes, just before last call, our last attempt involved asking someone else to try to get our beers... didn't work either. i honestly don't know what was up with this guy and why he was treating us like that. at one point i saw him get into a small argument with someone else at the bar, but i'm not sure what it was about. so finally i remembered that i had about half a bottle of wine in my backpack. i was pretty peeved at this point and perhaps it wasn't the best judgment on my part but i decided that if he wasn't going to pour me a drink then i would just do it myself. but, as soon as he realized what i had done, he picked up the bottle and very angrily smashed it into pieces all over the floor behind the bar. then he came running around the bar screaming at me. i had a brief moment of panic during which i thought he was going to hit me, and i think he probably would've if i wasn't a girl. nobody has ever been that angry at me before; he was absolutely livid. he continued to scream at me, saying that he was going to call the cops. i told him to calm down and get over himself and left. i will never step foot in this establishment again and highly discourage others from doing so. there are many wonderful places to hang out in this community, and behaviour like that is simply unacceptable here, or anywhere for that matter.